Developed by Drs. David Schnarch and Ruth Morehouse, Crucible Therapy views relationships as “human growing machines”.
Conflict is considered vital for growth, and there is a focus on balancing issues of Self (what do I want/need?; how do I follow my own directives?) with issues of Other (what are my partner’s needs?; how can I be open and curious about my partner’s experience?).
Sexual problems are resolved through each partner’s ability to increase their capacity for intimacy, passion, and discomfort for the sake of growth. Disparities in sexual desire are viewed as normal.